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Most Romantic Movie of 2009

By Gregory Blake
Nominees for the Most Romantic Movie of 2009

Below are our top 4 nominees for the most romantic movie of 2009.
Which movie do you feel deserves the title?

TRAILERS FOR THE NOMINEES
The Proposal

The Time Traveler’s Wife

Twilight 2 : New… »

When a floor is more…

By Gregory Blake
A new floor as an anniversary present.

It was our 26th anniversary on May 14th and we spent the better part of the day upgrading our kitchen floor. We installed the new vinyl plank flooring I bought the Mrs. as a present.

Tres romantic, n’est pas? Normally, no. Household upgrades are not romantic… »

In the Pit – Our Valentine’s Day

By Gregory Blake
On Valentine's Day we went to a "paint" cafe.

Now that the site is up and running, I just had to write up our Valentine’s Day. The Mrs. and I had a really special day.

The day started with me giving my Mrs. the black fuzzy scarf I had been secretly knitting for her. I’d… »


I would melt if someone brought me flowers…..

By Gregory Blake
Flowers are still a popular romantic gesture.

“I would melt if someone brought me flowers.” – a recent Twitter post.

How sad! How is it that a romantically involved woman has not received flowers recently?

It’s almost as… »

What is Love?

By Gregory Blake
"I asked my 6 year old goddaughter what is love? Her response, 'When two people come together and form the biggest heart.' This is her painting." - Photo by Andreanna

“What’s love to you?”
“I don’t know. You tell me!”
A dear friend caught me off guard a while back when she challenged me to define love. It turned out to be… »

Seeking Ideas: How to Date When Money is Tight

By Gregory Blake
A romantic date doesn't have to be expensive.

Over the last few weeks dating on a budget has come up a few times on the RatedGRomance Twitter feed. Here are some of the ideas from my Twitter Friends:
@allisonroesberr: Hubby and… »

“Some people just aren’t lucky enough to find love.”

By Gregory Blake

One of the disheartening things about writing on romantic gestures is that I hear from a lot of people that are frustrated with their love life or worse yet, that… »

The Romantic Side of Tinfoil

By Gregory Blake
Time to ponder the romantic uses of tinfoil.

Romance Challenge: What is the most romantic (rated G!) thing you could do or have done with tinfoil? 
What my Twitter friends said:
@phire42: Make tin foil hats & ensure that the… »

Romantic Sunshine Songs?

By Gregory Blake
Seeking Romantic Sunshine Songs

It was a beautifully sunny day here on the wet coast and I was savoring every moment. I asked for suggestions for romantic “sunshine” songs and here are a few… »

Help Me! My Man is Unromantic!

By Gregory Blake
Educate, don't berate, your unromantic SO.

This post is a call to action and I apologize in advance for the stereotypes it includes. When dealing with the human condition, there are always exceptions to the rule… »

Gift Challenge: Male, LL:Physical Touch, $200

By Gregory Blake

Looking for a great birthday gift for:

A younger married male
Love language: physical touch
Interests: marines, flying, boating, traveling, spontaneous, scuba

Looking for something in the $200 range.
I’ll post some thoughts after my report… »

Are You a Talented Romantic?

By Gregory Blake

Do you think you have some talent as a romantic? Do romantic gestures come relatively easy for you? If yes, how do you think you acquired that skill? I’d love… »

“Footy” – A Romantic Gestures Parable

By Gregory Blake
Aussie Rules Football provides a backdrop for a romantic gestures parable.

I have a point to make and thought a parable might be in order. Consider, if you will, the following:

With wedding bells on the horizon, the university sweethearts had decided… »

A Mega-Disney Proposal

By Gregory Blake

I ran across this video today and all I have to say is this guy went all out with his wedding proposal! He has set the bar high for other… »

Setting a Romantic Bath

By Gregory Blake
A Romantic Bath

A Special Guest Article by Joy Nordenstrom
Joy of Romance, Inc.
Is your love stressed out? If you want to help her unwind, de-stress but not CRASH, one of my favorite… »

#RC01: Romance Me with Chocolate?

By Gregory Blake
How can you incorporate chocolate into your romantic gestures?

Romance Challenge #1: What is the most romantic G rated thing you can do that includes chocolate?
@Smoph: Make a little corsage of chocolates.. Those are cute! And tasty! ^.^
I’m… »

Are You for Real?

By Gregory Blake

Believe it or not, “Are you for real???” is a question I get asked a lot. There are days I feel like a sideshow oddity, but trust me, there are… »

“First you have to love yourself” Really?

By Gregory Blake

“I have an everyday religion that works for me. Love yourself first, and everything else falls into line.” – Lucille Ball
I can’t quite put my finger on why, but I’m… »

I gained self-esteem by…

By Gregory Blake

Do you no-longer have low self esteem? What happened? Was it an internal decision or a result of an external influence?… »

#RC02 & #RC04: Romance me when I’m ill?

By Gregory Blake
Have you ever done something romantic for someone that is ill?

A while back I had the flu and it inspired this challenge.
Romance Challenge 2: Describe something romantic to do for someone feeling ill.
@AirJunkie Two words: Sponge Bath!
An especially good idea… »

#RC03: Romance on a Toonie

By Gregory Blake
Romance on $2?

Romance Challenge #3: Your have $2 & no other supplies; you can be anywhere in the world. Create a romantic gesture for your significant other.
@Nuk3dawg: Send a mushy postcard she’ll… »

#RC50 – The Holiday Proposal

By Gregory Blake
It's proposal season!

It’s proposal season. I’m not sure if it is simply the fact that there is time to really be together, if gifts are already being offered, there is time to… »

#RomanceWin2009 ?

By Gregory Blake

What was your most romantic moment in 2009? A special event? Gift? Something said? I’d love to hear about your #RomanceWin2009. :-)
@PupPup143Kitty When my SO professed their love for me in… »

Round 1 – Nominate Top 10 – Best Romantic Films of 2009

By Gregory Blake

What films do you feel should be short listed as one of the top 10 best romantic movies of 2009? Select up to 10.
To guide your thinking, consider the frequency… »

The Intricacies of Intimates

By Gregory Blake

I remember feeling emboldened by the fact that I was hundreds of miles away from home. Guys didn’t go to places like this where I came from. In fact, I… »

It’s Not Just the Gift…

By Gregory Blake

For some it’s the actual gift that is important; for others, the words on the card. Still others will be remember forever the kiss on delivery. Some, it will be… »

Review: “The Five Love Languages” by @DrGaryChapman

By Gregory Blake

I few months back I picked up the book “The Five Love Languages” by Dr. Gary Chapman. I am in the research/rough draft stage of a writing a “romance” how-to… »

What Makes a Restaurant Romantic?

By Gregory Blake

Romance Research Question: What makes a restaurant romantic?
Replies:
@gypsy18         A fireplace makes a restaurant romantic for me. Also like the smell of beeswax candles when I step in. You know, an… »

Twitter Updates for 2010-03-11

By Gregory Blake

Mrs., thank you for understanding my insecurities & putting up with all my foibles. Lord knows I have them. You are a daily blessing. #
@fjpoblam Yes and no. I suspect… »

Twitter Updates for 2010-03-10

By Gregory Blake

@thadbong Thanks so much Thad. in reply to thadbong #
Random ponder: What is forgiveness? #
@dailypoetics Done and doing. in reply to dailypoetics #
Loving all the answers to "What is forgiveness?"… »

Twitter Updates for 2010-03-09

By Gregory Blake

Gratitude for the list adds to @dutchbeingme @nsignia @reporter4651@puregroove_org & @Jampa_Thogmed . Appreciated…. »

Twitter Updates for 2010-03-08

By Gregory Blake

In honor of Oscars:Most Romantic Movie of 2009. Nominees:The Proposal,Twilight 2:New Moon,The Time Traveler's Wife,UP! http://shar.es/mHWzg #
Votes needed for Most Romantic Movie of 2009. http://shar.es/mHWzg http://yfrog.com/206ywj #
3:48!!! You'd think my… »

Twitter Updates for 2010-03-07

By Gregory Blake

@Smoph So true. in reply to Smoph #
Mrs., #BeforeIDie I want to visit every continent w/ you. Ok, ok… I know I'm on my own for Antarctica. But you'll be… »