Misc.

I’m old enough to remember when rap & hip-hop didn’t even exist. I love music of all sorts (I’m more about the message than the packaging) and I’ve been telling friends for years that I believe the next big thing in music will likely be some sort of eastern fusion. So I was really...
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            In one sense, it’s not terribly romantic to dissect romance, but I’ve started doing just that. I want to help others learn how to create meaningful romantic gestures for their heartmate. And yes, I believe this is a skill that can be learned.   As I outline my...
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I love the short film Validation . In this romantic festival favorite, the protagonist literally changes the world with sincere compliments. After watching this film I felt, well, validated. In my day to day life, I have long been someone that is likely to say to a friend, colleague or even total stranger “Nice smile” or “Great...
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“What is your take on cheating Greg?” was the rather provocative question I received on Twitter yesterday. “It’s bad,” was my less than enlightening response. “Would you forgive?” Now I was getting the real question and frankly the answer is a lot more complicated. First off, I’ve been really pondering what it means to...
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As someone interested in the dynamics of love and relationships, I sometimes get sucked into the oddest conversations and debates. The following is an example of just that. I have my opinion about the following scenerio, but what do you think is the right thing for this guy to do? Scenario: A man has...
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A few months back I picked up the book “The Five Love Languages” by Dr. Gary Chapman. I am in the research/rough draft stage of a writing a “romance” how-to book and as part of that exercise I kept running across the concept of love languages.  I thought I should check it out and...
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For some it’s the actual gift that is important; for others, the words on the card. Still others will be remember forever the kiss on delivery. Some, it will be the setting and the time being together when the gift is given that will make them swoon. And for others, it’s cleaning the kitchen,...
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What was your most romantic moment in 2009? A special event? Gift? Something said? I’d love to hear about your #RomanceWin2009. :-) @PupPup143Kitty When my SO professed their love for me in front of hundreds of people. @SingleInThe604 Second date, a guy I dated made me a surprise picnic and took me to the beach. It...
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